Burp and Slurp~

About Me

Hi, my name is Sophia, and I am a human being.

I am real—with real and daily problems, emotions, and thoughts. Here in my blog, I don’t hide or sugarcoat things. You will see me laugh, you will see me excited, happy, and delighted, but you will also see me cry, bitch, grumble, and yes, use the occasional curse words.

I am a college student in Southern California, who somehow foolishly and naively thought she might try to break it into the journalism world. No, I will not ever strike it rich—but I know where my passion lies and I will pursue it. I’m passionate about God, about people, about making a difference, about writing, about food, about experiencing and learning everything I can— and somehow, this blog fits every category mentioned. In fact, I wouldn’t call this your normal food blog.

You see, it hasn’t been long since I’ve recovered back my ability to be so free, normal, and passionate about anything. I have been struggling with anorexia for more than four years, enduring two hospitalizations (both against my wishes), a horrid relapse, and many more rather tiresome and pathetic dramas, blah blah blah…

Well, I’m glad to say it’s over now. I am now no longer Sophia the Anorexic; my eating disorder (or ED as I refer it) no longer defines who I am now. Yes, my ED past is an integral and significant part of me. It has shaped me into who I am now, but it is my past. And I aim to live in the present, and hope for the future.

Who am I without my eating disorder? Well, I’m still finding out. And again, that’s where this blog comes along.

Some other facts about me:

I am Korean, but I moved to Singapore when I was four because my father, a missionary, ministers to the Chinese people. When I turned fourteen, we moved again to America to establish another Chinese church. I guess I would say I am “Korean by nationality and culture, but with Singaporean, Chinese, and American influences significant enough to seriously question that statement.” I speak, write, and read English, Korean, and Chinese: Korean at home with my family, English with friends, Chinese in church.

My favorite food is kabocha, cheese, oatmeal, sweet potatoes, runny eggs, broccoli, Brussels sprouts, and good, artisanal bread (Wonder Bread is certainly a wonder, but not a bread).

I love to cook and experiment with different ingredients, so be prepared for loads of creative recipes. If I had a bit more money, I would eat out more, but I do have occasional restaurant reviews. If you want to treat me lunch, email me. ;-)

Why Burp and Slurp? Tell me, have you met any human being who never burps and slurps? Neither have I. Now, did I not say I am a human being?

88 Comments

88 responses so far ↓

  • slayedoll // March 25, 2009 at 10:39 pm | Reply

    pictures and colours? hee you are awesome!

  • Emmy // March 26, 2009 at 8:51 pm | Reply

    Hey, thanks for commenting on my blog.

    I look forward to reading your future posts.

    And best of luck with recovery, the blogging atmosphere sure is a great and supportive place to be!

    -E

  • Jeannie // March 30, 2009 at 1:36 am | Reply

    Hi! Glad managed to fight your sickness…keep up the good job and keep on blogging…I for one shall be visiting you:)

  • Jamie // March 30, 2009 at 11:58 am | Reply

    Excellent work and good for you! And a food blog is a wonderful way to express yourself and share what you are feeling and doing with others. Happy cooking and good eating!

  • Neas Nuttiness // March 30, 2009 at 4:04 pm | Reply

    Hi – thanks for stopping by my blog!

    I am so glad that you are working to overcome you ED. Me – I’m overweight, and been struggling with dieting for most of my life. I was recently diagnosed with a form of hypothyroidism, and placed on medication, so I hope that this will help.

    One of my daughters-in-law, is from Korea – a small town just outside of Seoul. She now lives on Long Island. She is a fantastic cook. Her buhlgoki is absolutely wonderful. I’ve heard that in Korea, buhlgoki is like meatloaf, here in the States…everybody has a different recipe!

    I’m looking forward to coming back here often!

  • Christina // March 30, 2009 at 4:39 pm | Reply

    Hey, thank you for commenting on my blog! I am so new to blogging, so I am always so thrilled to get a new reader. I’ll be sure to add your blog to my reader!!

    Also, I just wanted to commend you for your courageous journey to break up with ED! A good friend of mine is in recovery from anorexia, after a long dependent relationship with ED. She has a great website: http://www.cherylkerrigan.net in case you are interested.

    KEEP IT UP!!!! You are doing great :)
    -Christina Kim

  • Linda // March 31, 2009 at 12:54 am | Reply

    Thank you for commenting on my blog.
    Your blog is lovely and this is a tribute to your journey. Congratulations for taking this step. Choose life…choose joy.

  • Jessie // April 1, 2009 at 4:53 pm | Reply

    I admire your strength! I wish you the best on your recovery!

  • Cathy at Wives with Knives // April 5, 2009 at 3:37 pm | Reply

    Hi and thanks so much for visiting my blog. I’ll be back for a longer visit but just wanted to introduce myself.

    Blessings ~ Cathy

  • Alexandra // April 6, 2009 at 6:13 am | Reply

    Hi there…I’m glad you stopped by my blog! And I just wanted to say that it’s wonderful what you’re doing to help yourself on your way to recovery…I wish you all the best and I will now be one of your avid readers :) Good luck with the moist chocolate espresso cupcakes for your friend!

  • beautycaptures // April 6, 2009 at 3:24 pm | Reply

    I love this blog…I’ve battled with an eating disorder for years, and am finally learning to live life healthily and happily. I hope that other women (and men) can realize that being healthy is much more important than just being thin. If you get a chance, feel free to stop by my blog…it’s brand new, so don’t expect too much yet! Thanks!

  • Kris @The Back of the Cupboard // April 9, 2009 at 1:13 am | Reply

    Thank you for stopping by my blog! Congratulations on taking this courageous step. I shall be stopping by more often, happy eating and cooking!

  • lesley // April 9, 2009 at 2:31 pm | Reply

    Hello Sophia
    I’m glad you found my blog, because now I’ve found yours.
    Nice to meet a trilingual foodie, when I get stuck with a Chinese menu…guess who I’m gonna call?
    Seriously, well done with getting back from the back & beyond, otherwise we’d never have met. :0)
    I’ll be popping in again….

  • Sue // April 9, 2009 at 4:08 pm | Reply

    Wow! I was going to yell at you about those crepes until I read this. Now I just want to say GOOD for you to keep trying new things and working to overcome this powerful struggle.

  • brandi // April 9, 2009 at 5:48 pm | Reply

    thanks so much for commenting on my blog! I’m glad I found yours – what a great tribute to your journey – i can’t wait to read more :)

  • Lori Lynn at Taste With The Eyes // April 12, 2009 at 7:19 pm | Reply

    It’s nice to get to know you. Best wishes for continued good health.
    LL

  • Laura // April 15, 2009 at 1:51 pm | Reply

    Hey girl! Great blog and great story I cant wait to hear more… Have a great day :)

  • joan nova // April 16, 2009 at 3:10 pm | Reply

    Thanks for visiting FOODalogue. I hope some of the recipes inspired you. Good luck on your journey — and keep up the good work on your blog.

  • angiesappetite // April 18, 2009 at 4:09 pm | Reply

    Thanks for stopping by my blog! I enjoyed reading your story- I’ll stay tuned. Good luck with your continued recovery!

  • katiek from kitchensidecar // April 24, 2009 at 11:22 pm | Reply

    Hello

    good to find myself here. I am browsing your site.
    Read your bio. I can identify.
    Whatever roads we take to get into food, I’m glad we are here. Now it eat it all up!

  • thumbbook // April 26, 2009 at 2:42 pm | Reply

    You’re a lovely strong woman and your blog is very inspiring. We’re right here behind you girl! You’re awesome! – Alisa@Foodista.com

  • unknown // April 28, 2009 at 5:39 am | Reply

    Hi
    Wish the best of luck from another person suffering through the same thing!
    I was wondering if you relapsed when you got out of your second hospitalization? and now you are trying to recover? did i get it straight?

    • burpexcuzme // April 30, 2009 at 6:54 am | Reply

      Yes, I relapsed after my second hospitalization, but not straight after. I gained about 35 lbs on my own, but then my college refused to take me in until I gave proof that I went to a treatment center. So I got all angry and depressed and discouraged and relapsed. Smart, eh?

  • Christine // May 4, 2009 at 5:49 pm | Reply

    I am so proud of you! You have a great bunch of foodie friends to help you through it! To me it seems you are facing your fears head on. That’s brave.

  • Holly // May 5, 2009 at 11:02 pm | Reply

    You are amazing! I am so glad that you are working your way through this. I can’t wait to check out your blog. Keep it up!

  • Pearl // May 7, 2009 at 4:42 pm | Reply

    omfg – i just realized you speak Chinese. REALLY? WOW!

  • Liyan // May 11, 2009 at 2:53 am | Reply

    Hey Sophia… Heard that you are sick… We’ll keep you in prayer!! Keep in touch!!

  • Liyan // May 11, 2009 at 2:55 am | Reply

    Oh, btw, had read your sharing on blog, great to see that you are feeling much better… take care!!

  • Emmy // May 18, 2009 at 10:57 pm | Reply

    I just started reading your blog and I really, really, love it.

    I feel like I can relate to you so much because I am Asian also (not that that’s the only reason, haha), but I have also struggled with an ED.

    You are so inspiring and FUNNY at the same time.

  • Michelle // May 20, 2009 at 12:45 pm | Reply

    Aw thanks for the comment on my blog! Yours is looking great! Very inspiring!!!

  • Pocky at Pass the Pocky // May 25, 2009 at 10:37 am | Reply

    Thanks for visiting and commenting on my blog. With an awesome name like Burp and Slurp, I had to check out your site.

    I know what you mean about the whole ethnicity thing. Both my parents are Vietnamese. I was born in California and raised in Florida. Technically I’m American, but my face says otherwise.

    Good luck on your food journey. I’ll be hanging around to read more about it. :)

  • Meg Wolff // May 26, 2009 at 7:54 am | Reply

    I came over from Maggie’s blog (and glad I did). I love your “about me”. You are an inspiration! Congratulations with your recovery and now you are helping others too! Beautiful.

    I love your blog banner! So fresh & fruity!

  • Katy // May 26, 2009 at 2:15 pm | Reply

    Many blessings on your journey. You have a beautiful blog. More importantly, I feel you have a beautiful inner spirit, full of light and love and hope and STRENGTH. I shall keep you in my prayers.

  • jasberrie // May 27, 2009 at 2:37 am | Reply

    Thanks for commenting on my blog :) You definitely sound like you’ve been through a long journey, and I’m glad to read that you came out successful. I look forward to reading more :)

  • lesley // May 27, 2009 at 4:49 am | Reply

    *Thud* these are awesome, I have “laughing cow” in the fridge, & avocado in the fruit bowl, & English muffins? well I must be able to find them right? it’s on my hit list for tonight! Thanks for sharing this Sophia ;0)

  • Michelle // May 28, 2009 at 10:20 pm | Reply

    Thanks for finding my blog, I get so excited when new readers find me! :) Can’t wait to read more of yours!

  • MaryBe // May 29, 2009 at 2:56 pm | Reply

    Thanks for your kind words….I am enjoying your blog!

  • Genesis // May 30, 2009 at 12:41 am | Reply

    thank you for stumbling onto my blog :) im glad to have another friend. i look forward to reading about your journey.

  • Cucinista // May 31, 2009 at 6:30 am | Reply

    I’ve now spent half an hour reading your posts and recipes! Yummy food, great pictures, and some inspiring writing. Thanks for checking out my blog as well, and I’m looking forward to checking out more of your posts.

  • janetha // June 2, 2009 at 10:25 pm | Reply

    hey girl! thanks for the comment on my blog which led me to yours. can’t wait to start reading it :) xoxo

  • A // June 8, 2009 at 7:17 am | Reply

    I lived in Korea for a year. Chinhea…. Loved the food and people. I can’t wait to come back to your blog and read more about you!
    -A

  • Maria // June 11, 2009 at 11:00 pm | Reply

    Hi there! Thanks for stopping by my blog :D .

    I am so glad to hear that you are healing and that God is giving you strength!

    I look forward to reading your posts!

  • Louise Ross // June 12, 2009 at 4:35 pm | Reply

    Hey there Sweetie,
    Thanks for visiting my blog, Market to Mouth, and leaving such a generous comment. Love your blog and your brave message. I need to add you to my Blogroll !!! Also, you might want to take a look at summertomato.com I think you’ll like what she writes too.
    Hugs
    Louise

  • Karena // June 12, 2009 at 10:04 pm | Reply

    Hi! Brand new reader and I wish you all the best of luck with recovery. I’ve only read a couple of posts so far, but it sounds like you are discovering some of the wonderful aspects of food – textures, colors, flavors. I look forward to reading more!

  • Lynn (The Actors Diet) // June 16, 2009 at 10:17 pm | Reply

    Just discovered your blog – so glad to see another Asian sistah blogging about her eating disorder past. Not many of us out there!

  • Merna // June 17, 2009 at 8:16 pm | Reply

    Hey- I just found out about your blog! I’m currently battling a vicious eating disorder- Anorexia binge/purge type and i’m trying my best to get out of it. I’ve been hospitalized several times (against my will) as i’ve been battling this for about 5 years now.
    I’m Egyptian, but I live in America- but I am extremely interested in Asian cuisine and culture.

    I would love any feedback you have for me or any recipes you’d like to share. I favourited your blog and will be following it from now on :)

    • burpexcuzme // June 22, 2009 at 1:58 am | Reply

      Thank you, Merna! :-)
      Do you have a blog? You didn’t leave your url. Or you can always email me!

      • Merna // June 22, 2009 at 1:10 pm

        No I don’t have a blog, unfortunately.
        Email sounds great, though! :)
        I didn’t think you would even respond, honestly. ^-^;;;

  • Meredith // June 17, 2009 at 8:31 pm | Reply

    You should check out Beyond the Looking Glass: Daily Devotions for Overcoming Anorexia and Bulimia. I still refer to it whenever I’m having a bad day :)

  • Abigail (aka Mamatouille) // June 27, 2009 at 12:05 am | Reply

    I loved reading your “about me” page and pray for complete healing for you – 100%!!! Thanks for being so open and honest – what a brave girl you are! Blessings!!!

  • nitWit1 // June 29, 2009 at 8:16 am | Reply

    Thank you for stopping by my blog. I, too, have ED at the other end of the spectrum. I’ve struggled with my overeating all my life. Here I am at 70+ still trying to get a grip on it.

    I truly hope you win and will be praying for you. ED for both of us is deadly. I read your blog on time and restlessness. You will see in my description of myself, the word restless occurs.

    I am reading a book I’ve meant to read for a long time. The Purpose Driven Life. I’ve been a Christian for most of my adult life. I feel if I understand God’s purpose for me, even at age 70 my soul will be peaceful.

    BTW without knowing anything else about you, as a unilingual (with tiny bit of Spanish), I admire you for being TRIlingual. What a window to the world this opens for you!!!

  • Menden // June 29, 2009 at 2:11 pm | Reply

    Hey Sophia – thanks so much for visiting my little blog! You are a really talented writer, and I’ll look forward to visiting often! Oh, and your recipes sound fantastic :D

  • Danielle // June 29, 2009 at 7:23 pm | Reply

    Thanks for visiting my blog. I’ve added you to my reader, so I’ll be following you and your journey. :)

  • Dr. J // June 29, 2009 at 7:55 pm | Reply

    Hi!

    I came by looking for information about the cheesecake factory, and read a bit. Interesting stuff and great photos.

    I hope you continue to do well!

    I write a column at calorielab. Thank you!

  • gymratfoodie // July 3, 2009 at 9:15 am | Reply

    Hello :)

    We seem to have a lot in common. I’m Chinese by ethnicity (ie speak mandarin at home with my parents/grandparents), canadian by nationality, and currently live in new jersey. I’ve also had a bout of anorexia, then bulimia, and now I consider myself pretty much recovered. It’s nice to “meet” you!

  • epicurean's market // July 6, 2009 at 10:34 pm | Reply

    Thank you for sharing about yourself. Blessings and hugs to you as you continue on your journey.

  • sydgp // July 7, 2009 at 11:31 pm | Reply

    Just stopping by! Fairly new to the blog world! I love your most recent post..it is so inspiring! keep on giving and good luck with your journey. Oh and about gaining control of your life..I hear you there! Check out my blog sometime! Good luck!

  • dreamin'itvegan // July 13, 2009 at 12:05 am | Reply

    Thanks for checking out my blog. Good luck on your journey to recovering your health. You will find many people that are here to give support.
    Have you checked out these blogs, La Belle Vegan and Coffee Talk? These girls are also on a mission to better health. Hope this helps.

  • Josee // July 16, 2009 at 10:18 am | Reply

    I just love your website! Good job! I love reading what you are willing to share with us. Your food looks so appetizing. Tell me about the your camera and if you need special lighting. I want to take good pictures of my food too. I would appreciate your input.
    Thank you
    Josee

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  • Palidor // August 3, 2009 at 7:32 am | Reply

    You are an amazingly brave woman! I know exactly what you’re going through and how hard it is to kick an ED. If you ever need to talk about anything, feel free to contact me. You can do it – you are stronger than ED!!

  • healthnuttxo // August 3, 2009 at 10:14 pm | Reply

    hey- great blog!
    i added you to my blogroll- add me to yours!!

  • Emily // August 7, 2009 at 9:10 am | Reply

    Just wanted to say hi! I saw your comment on Janetha’s blog about what you were doing a year ago. I was doing the same thing, so I thought I’d check out your bloggie too. Congrats on working towards recovery–I think blogging is just about as good as therapy sometimes, yeah? :) xoxo

  • Gertrude // August 12, 2009 at 10:51 pm | Reply

    you should google “third culture kid” if you have not already. I too have spent several years growing up in Singapore because of my dad’s job! And I somewhat see myself as Canadian, (HongKong) Chinese, and Singaporean…

  • blueberrymuffins // August 15, 2009 at 11:31 pm | Reply

    i can’t believe chewing gum is illegal in singapore!

  • The Healthy Hostess // September 3, 2009 at 6:46 am | Reply

    Great story! I am excited to start reading your blog!

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  • Gaby // September 12, 2009 at 12:31 am | Reply

    Sophia, I’m so unbelievably proud of you! Seriously, I have no words for how far you’ve come. I remember you from way back when (last year haha) and you’re a totally new person. I know you were in there before, but I couldn’t see it when I first “met” you and I’m truly enjoying getting to know what an intelligent, fun, and interesting girl you are. You’re doing so amazingly well in school, and you make the greatest food, and always inspire me with your insight and positivity.
    I have to be honest, I used to avoid you on the ed forums because you would come to me and were still so deep in the anorexia and wanted help but at the same time wouldn’t take it. I’d get so frustrated because while I was doing just a bit better, I still wasn’t strong enough to be able to worry about someone else. I’m so sorry I couldn’t do anything back then but am very happy to see that you could do it on your own.
    I’m also in a much better place and would love to chat with you more and get to know you as a blogger friend from this fresh new healthy beginning.

    lots of love! xoxo

    ps. I didn’t mean to get so personal in a comment, but couldn’t find a way to write you a private email!

  • Marija // September 16, 2009 at 3:52 am | Reply

    I am so happy when new readers come to my blog, so I immediately went to see yours. And may I say that I really like the way you are promoting your ideas and goals! It is amazing how openly you speak about your ED and how you managed to overcome it. Continue the good work.

  • Jessica // September 23, 2009 at 1:57 pm | Reply

    You are a really strong person! And funny by the way – I was laughing through some of this. Thanks for the comment on my blog. :)

  • Madeleine @ Notes On A Page // September 24, 2009 at 11:13 am | Reply

    GREAT blog name! I think it’s great that you find strength in family, your culture, and God. You definitely have a heritage and background to be thankful for!

  • Jenna // September 25, 2009 at 9:03 pm | Reply

    heyy girl! i just found your blog and i really enjoy reading it! i would love it if you could check out my blog as well :)
    jenna

  • peanutbutterfingers // October 2, 2009 at 1:52 pm | Reply

    I loved learning more about you! What a wonderful blog. I love your awareness with your body and your desire to be healthy. Truly wonderful. :)

  • mademoiselle délicieuse // October 8, 2009 at 1:47 am | Reply

    Thank you for sharing your story, positive attitude and outlook with the rest of us. Food is for enjoyment but, as you’ve said, is for basic nourishment as well. Learn to love food, love your body and they should both love you back.

    And thank you for visiting my humble food blog – I am most touched =)

  • Sky // October 9, 2009 at 3:29 pm | Reply

    you rock. i have read your blog a few times and just love everything about ya!

  • Kristy // October 11, 2009 at 1:43 pm | Reply

    What a story! Thanks for being so willing and open to share!

  • Amy // October 13, 2009 at 11:00 pm | Reply

    Hi Sophia – thanks for stopping by! And good for you on getting after the disease with boxing gloves on. One day at a time. And one yummy meal at a time!

  • The Paper Apron // October 14, 2009 at 10:26 am | Reply

    I just wanted to say…

    When I read your words, they just shine, they’re so real. I rarely see someone’s aura come through on a blog. You’re different.

    I love the way you’re balancing your lighthearted spirit with your deepening soul. Struggles in life take us out of the shallow water and throw us into a much deeper well, where we either learn how to swim or we drown.

    You are swimming, Sophia!! And it’s a beautiful thing to witness. All of these people are here with you, too, supporting your new-found freedom from control. Keep up the good work.

    I’m so happy to meet you. ~Kim

  • Sarah // October 27, 2009 at 5:21 pm | Reply

    Sophia,

    Thanks for commenting on my blog! I just read through a bunch of your entries and I love what you have to say (and that hot and cold pasta looks amazing).

    Keep on staying strong and the blogging community is a perfect thing to guide and keep you healthy and happy! I hope your birthday is amazing!!!

    Sarah

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  • Maggie // October 29, 2009 at 12:42 am | Reply

    Great update :)

  • lilveggiepatch // October 29, 2009 at 11:57 am | Reply

    Lovely :-) So happy I “met” you!

  • Mom & Rita // November 4, 2009 at 9:18 pm | Reply

    Sweet potato noodles – seriously? The very thought sent me to the kitchen to microwave a sweet potato. My friend Ann brought me a bag of dirt covered sweet potatoes from the East Texas Sweet Potato Festival. If you really love these you know that you DO NOT wash them until you are ready to cook them – they stay fresh much longer that way and I do love them . . . .

    But back to the NOODLES – now I have to find a source. Thank goodness for web searches!

    And thank you for the information – sweet potato noodles!

  • glutster // November 12, 2009 at 12:26 am | Reply

    you seem really cool!

    looking forward to hanging out soon.

  • Dia // November 14, 2009 at 1:26 am | Reply

    Hi, Sophia
    just stumbled onto your blog (thru a recipe :) & appreciate your honesty, candor, wit. I’ve been enjoying the abundance of veggies from a CSA share that my dau’s family & I recieve – & baking squash to use in all sorts of things (inc the Pumpkin smoothie that’s my current fav. brekie!)

    blessings on your journey – keep shining!

  • chubby chinese girl // November 16, 2009 at 1:01 am | Reply

    wow Sophia! dats so awesome that u speak so many languages!!! but even more awesome is your fathers work to further the kingdom of God =)

    if they do another festival next year, i’ll def be there

  • _____________ // November 17, 2009 at 12:29 am | Reply

    Good for you! I have just graduated from single digits (i know, I’m young) and anexoria as well. One day I was really hungry and I took a “secret” nibble of a chocolate bar. I remembered the taste of food. And luckily, I took the nibble before it was about to become serious. Now I’ve told you my secret. And after the nibble, I’ve already had my share of burps and slurps! :) <3

  • Migs Austeen // November 23, 2009 at 8:50 pm | Reply

    Very nice blog, Sophia, and you also seem like a very good and interesting person.

    On a practical note: Your CH profile gives the wrong URL for your blog — too many http’s, because it automagically inserts one for you.

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